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You have the answers within you. You already have You have the answers within you. You already have what it takes to be successful.

But you’ve forgotten.

You’ve been distracted by all the noise.

You started looking outside yourself for the answers.

You think you have to look like someone else…be like someone else to have what it is you want.

You started comparing yourself and believing that you’re inferior.

That you need to change. Be better.

But none of that is true.

In fact, those are the very thoughts and beliefs that will lead you astray.

The truth is that the key to your success lies in being you.

In listening to your heart.

In doing those things you love.

Following your passions.

Embracing your differences (yes, those things that you may perceive as faults are often your greatest gifts).

So today give yourself a gift. A gift of shutting down the outside noise so that instead you can listen to your inner voice.

And yes, you know exactly how to do this….so do what you must.

Give yourself the space to hear YOUR voice…the one you’ve been drowning out with all the noise.

You’ll be amazed by the powerful insight that has been there all along…waiting for you to listen.

xoxo
How to be an amazing coach… Remember that as a How to be an amazing coach…

Remember that as a coach, your job is to help your clients reach their goals.

Your job is NOT to make your clients like you or to make your clients feel good. 

Transformation rarely feels good. In fact, it feels incredibly uncomfortable. 

One of the biggest things that stops coaches from being as powerful as they can be is getting stuck in ‘people pleasing’. 

You want your client to feel happy, comfortable and to like you, so you don’t ask the hard questions. You don’t point out the ways your client is sabotaging him/herself. 

When you do this, you are acting as a friend instead of a coach. 

It is always great to have a friend, but this is not what your client is paying you for and this is not what will help your client reach their goals.

Keep these things in mind when you coach…

1. Let go of all judgement.
2. Encourage your client to use their intuition
3. Listen with your full attention
4. Call your clients out on their B.S.
5. Help your clients create an action plan
6. Share your wisdom, guidance and a new perspective when helpful
7. Don’t make it about you…. If you’re worried about what your client is thinking about what you say, you’re making it about you.
8. Get curious and dig deeper. Ask why?
9. Remember that your clients stories are their opinion/experience and not necessarily the ’truth’ of the situation

Do you find yourself falling into people pleasing when you coach?

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The biggest obstacle to growing a successful coach The biggest obstacle to growing a successful coaching business is FEAR.

Fear of not being good enough
Fear of what people will think of you
Fear of failure
Fear of your clients not getting results and being unhappy
Fear of not knowing what to say or do
Fear of making mistakes
Fear of being salesy or pushy
Fear of charging too much
I could keep going… ;)

And this is why growing your business is also one of the biggest opportunities for personal growth and transformation.

In order to be successful (whatever this means to you), you will need to face these fears.

Your brain will inevitable tell you to run away from your fears…it’s trying to protect you from discomfort.

And many people listen.

And thus, never go on to build the business and make the income and impact they’re dreaming of.

This is a DECISION.

A decision YOU make.

But you also have the ability to make the decision to face your fears.

Because you are WILLING to face the discomfort to make your dreams come true.

And this is what I know to be true.

You will NEVER EVER regret having the courage to face your fears and pursue your dreams.

And by doing so, you will become a stronger, wiser, more confident and resilient version of yourself.

The version of you who stands in your power and goes after those things you want in life.

PS: Life is more fulfilling and exciting when you're willing to chase waterfalls 

PPS: Who's ready to face their fears and make magic happen? 🙋‍♀️
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